Gay Dating Advice
Looking for some gay dating advice? Well, if you are gay, bi-curious, bisexual or transgender, in search for a long term or causal relationship, it can be a daunting task, especially if you are just starting out. We have devised a list of tips and some gay dating advice in order to make your experience on Gay Match Maker as exciting, enjoyable and safe as possible.
- When meeting members for the first time, it is always recommendable that you start out SLOW. Take your time, especially if you are new to the scene and have little or no experience in gay dating. Read the member's profiles carefully and don't be afraid to ask as many questions as you feel.
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A key point when it comes to giving gay dating advice, respond in a timely manner to all messages, it is proper online etiquette to other members regardless of whether you are interested or not.
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If you are interest in a member, take you time in getting to know them. Spend as much time as you feel conversing on the Gay Match Maker online chat. Possibly exchange contact information such as email address or external chat usernames. We suggest you refrain from giving out your personal phone number, home address or personal information too quickly. Get to know and trust the person before you do.
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Make sure you exchange recently taken photos before you meet the person. Again, ask as many questions about the other member as possible, e.g. where do they work? Are they married? Also, be sure you feel comfortable with the person's physical appearance and whether this is the person for you.
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Once you have established a certain level of trust, exchange mobile phone details (not home phone – they are not so easily replaced) and exchange a few calls. Talking to the person will give you a greater indication of whether this is the person you would like to meet or not.
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Another great piece of gay dating advice is to MEET THE PERSON IN PUBLIC, if for the very first time. Choose a place that is close, familiar and crowded. Doing so will not only be a wise choice in terms of safety but it should also calm any feelings of nervousness and anxiety. This is also a good time to get to know your prospect partner face to face.
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Before you decide to meet again or simply "jump in the sack", bear in mind this final and ultimate piece of gay dating advice. Know your partner's sexual history! Do not be afraid or shy to ask intrusive question regarding his sex life. You will not only be protecting yourself from STD's but future partners and encounters as well. Whether your partner is telling the truth or not about his sexual history and health is another matter, however for your own sake, be sure you practice SAFE SEX at all times.
You are now ready to face the world! We hope this gay dating advice has given you valuable food for thought. Join Gay Match Maker for FREE to get you started. We wish you the best of luck and we hope you find that perfect love, relationship or casual fling!
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Friday, 22 April 2005
found again after 25 years
I went out with a wonderful guy when I was 20 years old and I am now 46.
Just recently I rejoined AMM and after 2 weeks responded to a profile only to discover I used to go out with this guy years ago.
Amazing story....through all lifes' encounters; good bad and otherwise we are together again and the future looks promising.
Thankyou AMM for making this possible.
Tuesday, 12 April 2005
A happy ending
We are two previous users of this site and feel compelled to give some feedback on the success we have experienced since meeting here.
Six months ago we both joined (on the same day incidentally) and contact was initiated via a wink. From that initial contact (despite the fact we lived well over a thousand klms apart) we developed a relationship over the next month through emails. This progressed onto phone calls and eventually a meeting. Having come to know each other through emails we already knew that our meeting would be a success on some level, what eventuated however was truly magical.
From the moment we laid eyes on each other it was absolute love at first sight and the scene was set for a romantic whirlwind. After our initial meeting we continued seeing each other regularly spending a small fortune on flights back and forth between our respective home towns. The times we were apart were spent emailing and texting each other to maintain contact until being apart could no longer be an option. I (Scotto1971) applied for a transfer at work and 3 days later was offered a position in Shelly6681's home town. Six months since our first contact (almost to the day) we are completely and totally in love and are living together in pure bliss and we are engaged to be married in 2006.
When we first joined this site the initial thoughts of each of us were of perhaps finding a friend to chat with, neither of us expected to find our soulmates.
So from both of us, Scotto1971 and Shelly6681, we say thank you aussiematchmaker.com.au, we both finally know what true love is all about.
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